A
guy I know had a heated misunderstanding with a lady and it was reported that
the lady slapped him and as a result he beat up the lady – to cut the story
short he lost his job because everybody kept saying he beat a woman.
I now asked a friend what she would do if the man was her husband and she was there when the lady slapped him. She was so angry and demonstrated how she was going to deal with the lady for daring to slap her husband. If she felt like this, imagine what the guy felt before he resulted to retaliating. He is a man he is not supposed to feel hurt I guess.
Most mother in-laws or sister in-laws would not see anything wrong in their son/brother slapping his disrespectful or a wild wife, they think she should be thought a lesson.
I now asked a friend what she would do if the man was her husband and she was there when the lady slapped him. She was so angry and demonstrated how she was going to deal with the lady for daring to slap her husband. If she felt like this, imagine what the guy felt before he resulted to retaliating. He is a man he is not supposed to feel hurt I guess.
Most mother in-laws or sister in-laws would not see anything wrong in their son/brother slapping his disrespectful or a wild wife, they think she should be thought a lesson.
Most
of the times, the reason why many ladies or wives stay on in an abusive
relationship or marriage is because they feel they are the ones who caused the
man to beat them by their actions or in-actions.
Hmmm,
but are their truly actions/in-actions that would warrant a man to beat up his
wife?
The list I have seen these days are so numerous;
The list I have seen these days are so numerous;
An infidel
woman, who blatantly shows it to the man.
A woman, taunting
her husband, who suddenly could not provide for the family like before, due to
economic situation.
There are
women described as ‘pami nku sori benbe soko’, any disagreement, they keep
talking/nagging, holding the man and shouting or probably be the first to punch.
Always spoiling for a fight!
These
and many more are the annoying things a woman can do to want to sniff out life
from a man before a fight will now ensue. Who is usually the victim – the
woman, because even if what you are trying to do is in self defence against a
possible violent attack, you will be wrong.
The
reality is that we have men who are wolfs in sheep clothing or brazing wolfs
who take out their frustrations on the weak and take pleasure in seeing others
in pain, but my message is to you who have sworn never to hit her, but you are
now ‘unlucky’ to have such a wife
that is always pushing for it…
Before you hit her, pray.
Before you hit her, seek counsel.
Before you hit her, remember your promise to protect her.
Before you hit her, remember your children.
Before you hit her, take a walk out of the house.
Before you hit her, RUN!!!
I don’t
believe in divorce, but I believe in separating people fighting first so that
you can have a chance to resolve the conflict. STOP DOMESTIC VIOLENCE!
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